It’s one thing to love cam girls; it’s another thing to fall in love with a cam girl. And unfortunately, some guys end up doing both. You might think that it only happens to especially gullible men, but that isn’t always the case. After all, interacting with a cam girl is just about the closest you can get to sex without actually having the real thing, so is it really that much of a surprise if you start catching feelings?
Millions of people visit NudeLive and other sex cam sites every day, so of course it’s going to happen to somebody. They might be “feeling a real connection” with one of their long-term favorites, or they might stumble upon a newcomer who’s just not like any of the others. Whatever the case, falling in love with a cam girl can happen for many different reasons; the trick is to determine whether it’s love, or just lust. With that introduction, let’s explore a few of the most common reasons why you might be feeling romantically involved with a cam girl. 1. It’s her job to make sure you feel special This is why men choose cam girls over porn. They get the personal touch, figuratively if not literally. Even if she has dozens or hundreds of different clients, a great cam girl will try to make each client feel like they’re the center of attention at some point. Here’s the catch – this is all an act. This shouldn’t be news, but sometimes guys need the reminder. The cam girl may love her job, but that doesn’t mean she loves everyone her job brings her into contact with. If she’s taken a few extra minutes to make sure you get your happy ending, or she’s putting on a private show that’s all for you, it isn’t because she’s secretly into you. It’s because you’re going to make it worth her time with cold, hard cash. She isn’t scamming you; she’s just doing her job, and doing it well. 2. She’s not like other cam girls If you’re looking for the smallest confirmation that something’s going on between you and a cam girl, you’ll probably end up finding it in literally anything. In some cases, you might even fabricate it from thin air. Consider this scenario: a man has been frequenting sex cam sites for a few years, and although there are plenty of performers he really likes, he’s never felt a spark from any of them. Then one day he met a new girl. She was shy at the beginning, and so was he. Eventually they got to know each other a little better, and he started to think that she genuinely enjoyed his company. Because she never tried to get him to book private shows, he felt flattered that he was more than just any old client. Except, he probably isn’t. If a cam girl really likes a guy – as in, really likes him – she’s going to stop taking his money, refund what he’s already given her, and pursue the relationship for real. 3. You’ve fallen for her personality, not just her body That makes everything fine, right? Wrong. A cam girl’s personality is one of the things that sets her performances apart from a porn video. A cam show is all about intimacy. Not just sexual intimacy, but person-to-person intimacy as well. Saying you’ve fallen for a cam girl’s personality as well as her body is really just another way of saying “I really enjoy her performances”. That’s the whole point of cam shows. If you didn’t care about seeing sexual performances with a little personality involved, you’d be on Pornhub instead of a cam site. That being said, there’s nothing wrong with liking a cam girl for her personality as well as her physical attributes; just don’t fool yourself into thinking that it’s true love. 4. You want to be her superhero Savior complexes are real, and they can be powerful motivators for guys who think they’ve fallen in love with a cam girl. It’s so easy to set the scene in your head: she hates her job, but she has to do it so she can pay the bills. One day, she meets this guy who just seems different. He’s more respectful than most of her clients, and he even comes to her defense when they get out of hand. She’s so grateful…and so on. You get the idea. The thing is, there’s a one-in-a-million chance of that happening; it’s the kind of storyline you’d expect to see if Disney started making porn. While it’s true that plenty of cam girls aren’t totally thrilled about their jobs, who really is? It doesn’t mean that they’re waiting for one of their clients to come rescue them. 5. You love being her favorite client…and you want something more In rare cases, a cam girl will actually let preferred clients get a little closer than most. She might give them her Skype, for instance, or her phone number. While this is all for the purpose of making more money – which it most certainly does – the guys on the receiving end of the favors start mixing up the signals. At its foundation, any relationship with a cam girl is transactional. However, it’s a transaction that’s centered around one of the most intimate things two people can do. It’s understandable how a guy could develop feelings for a cam girl when he can literally request (and receive) nudes practically 24/7, but if he does, it's up to him to snap out of it. The cam girl is just doing her job, and if he can’t remember that, it’s pretty much his problem. Watching cam shows can get more complicated than you’d think! Anyone who’s experienced this can confirm: once you’ve started exploring the emotional side of watching cam shows, it’s a hard pattern to break. Is there a lesson here? Just make sure to remember that if it was true love, you wouldn’t be paying for it. |
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